Tiffany Elise Staelin was the beloved daughter of Susan K.
"Penny" and Stephen H. Staelin, born in Toledo, Ohio on August 19, 1973. She was
engaged to be married to Thomas J. "T.J." Filip on July 9, 2005. She passed away
unexpectedly in her sleep in New York City on the morning of October 29, 2004.
Her mother and she were on a wedding planning trip at the time of her death. She
was thirty-one years old and a resident of Philadelphia.
Tiffany was a profoundly beautiful person with a deep sense of commitment to her
family and friends, as well as the natural environment that surrounded her. She
was a sincere, conscientious steward of God's world.
She was a naturalist and an expert in wilderness expeditions, having taught and
led groups of teenagers throughout the Rockies and Pacific Northwest, including
Alaska. Tiffany loved nature and all its treasures. She taught leadership
skills, environmental conservation and preservation, team building, self-respect
and personal growth for teenagers. In the last three years, she worked as an
environmental consultant in Boston, primarily serving the U.S. Environmental
Protection Agency on matters related to the Clean Water Act and the Clean Air
Act. Most recently she taught high school science in Philadelphia and was
enrolled at The University of Pennsylvania Graduate School of Education.
Tiffany spent her formative years in Toledo and Louisville, Kentucky, where she
attended Kentucky Country Day School and was a Kentucky State Gymnastics
Champion. She graduated with honors from Ottawa Hills High School and cum laude
from Colgate University, where she majored in Environmental Geography, with a
minor concentration of study in Biology. After graduating with a bachelor of
science degree, she worked in Jackson, Wyoming where she studied forestry and
natural history at the Teton Science School. In Jackson, she designed both a
curriculum based on the natural history of Grand Teton National Park as well as
the website for the National Museum of Wildlife Art, authoring the ecologically
interpretive text for both web site and in-house curriculum.
She studied in Australia at the Great Barrier Reef and lived in Hong Kong where
she developed the environmental education curriculum for the Hong Kong school
system. While living in Asia, she traveled and hiked extensively in Korea,
China, Tibet, Nepal, Thailand, Cambodia, Malaysia and Singapore. She and her
fiancé, T.J. Filip shared a love of Asian culture and the environment.
Her love of running inspired her to compete and finish the New York City
Marathon in 1999. She was also an enthusiastic downhill, telemark and back
country skier who relished the natural beauty of the mountains. May she find
peace in returning to her natural world.
Tiffany is survived by her parents; her loving brother, Dr. Stephen Tyler
Staelin (Katie) and the love of her life, her fiancé, Thomas James "T.J." Filip;
her devoted grandparents, Dr. and Mrs. David M. Katchka; many aunts, uncles and
cousins. Tiffany was preceded in death by her paternal grandparents, Mr. and
Mrs. Carl G. Staelin.
Special recognition and appreciation is extended to our friends, members of the
New York City police and medical examiners' office, the management and staff of
The Plaza Hotel and the partners and staff of Ernst & Young. Their support and
sensitivity at this tragic time have been a source of great comfort to the
Staelin family.
This obituary was published in the
Toledo Blade on Tues, Wed and Thurs, Nov 2, 3, and 4, 2004. It was also published in the Carlisle Sentinel and
the Jackson Hole News & Guide.
Additionally, the Toledo Blade published a feature obituary on November 3,
2004.